How does one succeed in life?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Losing 20kg is a goal.

What’s the worst thing you caught anyone in your family doing?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

I’ve a dismissive avoidant partner who said that he’s overwhelmed by our relationship and that he wants to break up, how do I get him back?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What is the best comeback you used on someone?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

How did you get to be a leftist?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Ask yourself:

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

What I need from you?

What was your best experience of having your navel touched?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Making more friends is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Do guys prefer big boobs or small boobs? Why?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Have you ever been forced into bestiality?

That's it for today.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Why do women consider 80% of men as unattractive?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Does not procrastinate.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Hangs out with loser friends.